on the topic of
APPRECIATION
on the topic of
APPRECIATION
David & Katharina
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David & Katharina
Situation:
- Breakdown of intimate trust
- Husband has moved out
- Couple facing divorce
Urgency:
- Critical
Diagnosis:
- Couple has endured multiple stressors over the past few years
- Unsuccessful fertility attempts
- Husband’s loss of job
- Focusing on the problems and not solutions
- Attacking each other instead of the REAL problems
Strategy:
- Help couple see the REAL issue(s)
- Coach on strategies to get their needs met in a manner that is meaningful to their partner
- Stress connection before communication
Prognosis:
- EXCELLENT!
- David & Katharina have now successfully integrated new connection and communication skills which have brought them closer than ever
- ***UPDATE***
More than 5 years later, David & Katharina’s relationship is better than ever and continues to grow
Salim
Testimonial
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“I am pumped!
So the weirdest thing happened last night. The video you showed me from Tony Robins. I suggested it to Tay and she watched it. We had a chat about the work you have been doing with me.
She went and deleted all her social media and in the evening when I brought up talking with the boys about us separating.
I received a something I didn’t expect. She feels like she is going about her healing wrong and she doesn’t want to move out and split up. She seems to have felt it. 🤯
I am at a bit of a loss for words!”
… and then he sent me this:
Before I met Tym, I was feeling trapped, lost and felt less of a man.
I was going through some relationship issues that I felt I lost my identity through.
Tym has helped me start to remove the layers of stories that were holding me back and shown me a new way of thinking. How to own my strength and see value in myself. I have learned how to handle my past issues and how to be more present and speak of myself in a constructive manner.
I no longer feel trapped and hopeless.
I feel my inner strength growing and the love for myself blossoming once again. It has opened my eyes and heart to repairing my relationship with myself and with my partner.
What I have learned is invaluable and I could not put a price on where I am now from where I had been before doing this work.
This is my new beginning with a healthier relationship with myself and others. It is exciting.
Salim
Situation:
- Felt like he had lost his confidence as a man
- Breakdown of intimate trust in marriage
- Wife wants to leave him
- Couple facing separation
Urgency:
- Critical
Diagnosis:
- Addictive habits left marriage feeling empty and unfulfilling
- Avoiding instead of engaging
- Unaware of how he ‘leaks’ his masculine energy
- Unaware of how his communication style leads to controversy
- People pleasing
- Also focusing on the problems and not solutions
- Attacking each other instead of the REAL problems
Strategy:
- Wife not interested in healing relationship, so only working with him
- Focus on stopping where he is leaking energy
- Elevate quality of communication
- Cultivate how to generate ‘gravity’
- Eliminate the people pleaser in him
- Become the man his relationship deserves
Prognosis:
- MIND BOGGLING!
- Here’s a text he sent me after about 8 weeks of coaching:
I am pumped!
So the weirdest thing happened last night. The video you showed me from Tony Robins. I suggested it to Tay and she watched it. We had a chat about the work you have been doing with me.
She went and deleted all her social media and in the evening when I brought up talking with the boys about us separating.
I received a something I didn’t expect. She feels like she is going about her healing wrong and she doesn’t want to move out and split up. She seems to have felt it. 🤯
I am at a bit of a loss for words!
… and then he sent me this:
Before I met Tym, I was feeling trapped, lost and felt less of a man.
I was going through some relationship issues that I felt I lost my identity through.
Tym has helped me start to remove the layers of stories that were holding me back and shown me a new way of thinking. How to own my strength and see value in myself. I have learned how to handle my past issues and how to be more present and speak of myself in a constructive manner.
I no longer feel trapped and hopeless.
I feel my inner strength growing and the love for myself blossoming once again. It has opened my eyes and heart to repairing my relationship with myself and with my partner.
What I have learned is invaluable and I could not put a price on where I am now from where I had been before doing this work.
This is my new beginning with a healthier relationship with myself and others. It is exciting.
Anna
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I went to Tym about a year ago when my marriage was unravelling. I was heartbroken, mad, frustrated, confused and perhaps feeling somewhat like the victim.
Tym’s wisdom, compassion and not letting me off the hook helped me get to the place I am today. I have adopted his mantra of “Who am I, where am I going and who’s coming with me” and it has kept me going during the many challenging times over the last year.
My relationship with me has matured, my confidence in my abilities and strengths have grown and I am slowly, but surely, moving in the right direction toward a braver, stronger and more contented version of me.
Tym knows relationships. I would encourage anyone to work with Tym, as long as you are willing to face it all; the good, the less good and the not so pretty.
Anna
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I went to Tym about a year ago when my marriage was unravelling. I was heartbroken, mad, frustrated, confused and perhaps feeling somewhat like the victim.
Tym’s wisdom, compassion and not letting me off the hook helped me get to the place I am today. I have adopted his mantra of “Who am I, where am I going and who’s coming with me” and it has kept me going during the many challenging times over the last year.
My relationship with me has matured, my confidence in my abilities and strengths have grown and I am slowly, but surely, moving in the right direction toward a braver, stronger and more contented version of me.
Tym knows relationships. I would encourage anyone to work with Tym, as long as you are willing to face it all; the good, the less good and the not so pretty.
Sara
Lindsay
Was sharing with a colleague the awesomeness of Tym so…I captured the thoughts that I had shared with them. There are two versions. Let me know if you’d like either edited. Thank you!
Longer: I knew within five minutes of meeting him that Tymothy Roy would be my business coach. And I have never been so happy to have listened to my gut in saying “yes” (other than my wedding day, but that’s another story). Working with Tym hasn’t just helped me gain business clarity for my real audience and value-based services. It’s helped me gain human clarity for how I can be present and focused in all areas of my life. He holds me accountable to my actions, helping stay aligned in what I say I want for my life and how I can do this through my business while being in service of others. He makes me ask the hard questions of myself and have the hard conversations that need to be had, all the while helping me connect with my true joyful self and purpose. Tym, above anything else, is the best support and investment I’ve done for my business since I started eight years ago. Thank you, Tym!!
Shorter: Just a wee thank you for all the awesome you have helped me to reveal in my life. I am finally understanding who I am and how I can use this to truly HELP people both professionally and personally. Without a doubt, you are my Fairy Godfather!
Tannis
I was suffering from anxiety, indecisiveness, fear, blame and personal insecurities.
And I underestimated myself in most areas of my life. None of which came from sources that seemed justified to me. At the time I felt that my problems were ridiculous, as I had a very blessed life with the average amount of daily stress. In my mind I did not have a decent reason for this anxiety.
Nothing short of miraculous, what we did was freeing, with each session I let parts of myself go…the ones that were never mine to begin with… revealing my true self, my true dreams and thoughts…minus the anxiety, fear and insecurities. I started with the Intensive program and never looked back. It seemed to me the best way to be free of my barriers was to just go full steam ahead, without expectations…just to see what changes could be possible.
Tym’s coaching was amazing, he is a gentle soul with enthusiastic dedication. With each session it became very clear that Tym [has] very powerful tools for wellbeing.
This work changed my perspective in every aspect of my life.
Tym has a way of putting you at ease to let the reality of what you need to sort out just come to the surface. Filtering between the bullshit between how I want the world to see me, the crap I’ve been told to do, versus the reality of who I am and want to be. As a result I can now use my energy and thoughts to heal the areas of my life that no longer serve me.
I am living a confident life, knowing I am putting the best version of myself out there everyday. I am able to go about my daily routines without the anxiety, and no longer fear bumps and challenges along the way. Tym taught me how to access all that I am, leaving all that I am not behind…it has truly been a gift.
Stacey
I would describe what we did as life changing!
The way I view things and myself has changed. The tools I came away with are tools I use everyday. I came into the office as a shadow of a person and I left believing in myself.
Tymothy taught me so many things about my true self. There were so many AH HA moments where it was just an awakening for me. I use the things and tools I learned everyday. I was so enlightened and inspired by Tymothy that it just makes me want to keep learning more and more, it’s like it fuels me!
Nancy
Tym’s methods of unravelling issues at hand is nothing short of awesome! I felt like I was ripe to open and heal old and current wounds and I walked away from every session with something to ponder, work on and/or investigate.
Because of the many discoveries I have had working with Tym, I am currently in a much more enlightened state than I have ever been in before. I am dealing with issues, both positive and negative, in a more productive and joy inducing manner.
I feel like I know so much more about myself!
Sandra
Right from the first session, Tym put me at ease and gently challenged me to take ownership of my life, and everything that happens in it. I started with intensive 1:1 sessions, and then joined his support group. Both ways of coaching have been incredibly valuable to me.
Tym has a unique ability to listen to one or more people talk about different issues they are dealing with, and then zoom into what is really at the heart of the matter, and help each of them understand and move forward.
He has a gift for making sense out of complex issues. He pushed me to dig deep and look at patterns of behaviour I had developed that weren’t serving me very well. He helped me to understand connections between the body and the mind. He gave me tools on how to move forward in my life in ways that are healthy and empowering.
I feel like a different person now in so many ways. I feel freer, I have more confidence, and I am comfortable in my body -and soul- again. I don’t feel anxious anymore; in fact, I’m excited about the future now, and I’m living more in the moment. Tym has brought me to a much better place than I could have ever imagined without his guidance.
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